I was standing outside room 1036 of the Ritz-Carlton, just off
the Boston Common, equipped with a room service cart with a light meal for two
on it, with my trainer, Steve Posner.
I was training for a week to become a room service waiter at the
Ritz for the purposes of a Harvard Business Review article I was writing, and
was trying to learn how the Ritz achieves what might be called "extreme
customer service" on the part of its employees.
I raised my hand to the door, going over the script in my head,
pretty frightened as it turned out. I knocked on the door and said, "Good
evening, in-room dining." I walked in with my cart, pushing rather than
pulling it so that it kind of jiggled and tinkled and almost tipped over as I
went into the room, and asked the woman in the room if I could open the bottle
of water for her and help her in any way set up her meal.
And then she said, "That would be fine, if you'd like
to," and then basically I stood there, hands behind my back, kind of
slack-jawed and desperately trying to remember what I was supposed to do next.
Suddenly I remembered, "A-ha! Explain to them what they're
receiving tonight." So I lifted off the warming tray and said, "You
have a cheeseburger medium rare and a salad and beer and water." And then
I stood there again.
Meanwhile my trainer, having basically given up on my ever
opening the bottle of water, went over and did just that, and tried to smooth
things over for me as we left the room. As we headed down in the elevator, he
said, "We've got a little more training to take care of."
This was kind of my maiden voyage as a room service waiter at
the Ritz, but the purpose of my going through the training and the process was really
to try to find out what makes that hotel chain so successful in providing
service to its customers.
They have a lot of rules, they have a very extensive training
program, which they offer actually to other companies trying to offer top notch
customer service. But my strongest takeaway from the week I spent learning to
be a room service waiter was that empathy may be the most important aspect of
providing extreme customer service.
The problem with my first trip into that room was I was thinking
all about myself and not about my customer, my guest in that hotel. And the
challenge over the course of my week was to get outside my own head and to get
inside the heads of the people I was serving.
There was one instance where my trainer, Steve, did a wonderful
thing. We were taking some champagne and pastries up to a room of a newlywed
couple who would be arriving in a couple of hours. He not only was very careful
in putting the rose petals around the champagne glasses, crossing the spoon —
there was a lot of care given — but he was also at that very moment thinking
about his own grandparents' wedding.
And he told me as we were doing this, he said, "On my
grandparents' 75th anniversary, they showed pictures of their wedding. And
while the pictures were old and kind of funny and from long ago, it meant
something to them. And I want this experience to be meaningful to these people
as well."
Empathy, getting inside the heads of the people you're trying to
serve, was my strongest lesson I had from that experience as a room service
waiter.
First-class customer
service is all about empathy for the customer.